Costa Rica Culture Shock Part 1

If you are planning to move to Costa Rica, get ready to… S L O W D O W N.

People spend hours on the internet learning about real estate, health care, transportation, and restaurants, but they often fail to invest in learning about the culture. This is a grave error because the majority of people who decide to go back home, don’t do it because they couldn’t find their favorite beverage or a suitable appliance. They leave because they couldn’t adjust to the culture. Those planning to live permanently in Costa Rica need to learn how to adopt a new attitude and adapt to the culture.

The term "Culture Shock" has been used to describe the anxiety and feelings of disorientation experienced when people have to operate in a different cultural environment. That’s when a person finds that the ways that things always have been done no longer work in a new culture. For example, the currency exchange, language, traffic and even the sense of humor change when a person enters another country.

Visitors to Costa Rica are often struck with how familiar things appear on the surface, and upon this assumption many make plans to stay permanently. However, the unexpected trials and wide differences in cultural understanding often make the transition much more difficult than expected. As North Americans, we have become accustomed to things such as promptness, efficiency and courteous drivers. That's our baggage from up north. The expectation that these things exist in Costa Rica is our problem not the Tico’s. I you’re expecting things to be the same as in your home country in another then you’re bound to get disappointed. A move to another country allows you to start over with a new life and experience a new culture in a new environment. That’s why people move to Costa Rica.

A good percentage of North Americans planning to stay in Costa Rica go back. They cannot deal with the inefficiency. Obtaining residency usually takes much longer than expected. You need to hire a consultant to get a drivers license. The list of frustrations goes on and on. The bottom line is they are not able to slow down and adapt to the culture.

Culture shock affects people differently according to the coping strategies each individual employs in order to successfully adapt. After 15 years, I still have to remind myself; "If you don’t expect much, you won’t get disappointed" Then I step back, take a second look at the situation that is beginning to frustrate me and remind myself where I’m at, whom I’m dealing with and why I’m here. Then the situation at hand doesn’t seem so irritating. Expats who do manage to stay for a long time in Costa Rica do so because they possess patience and flexibility.

Years ago I noticed several cultural differences that used to make living in Costa Rica frustrating. Concept of time, expectations of efficiency and understanding the local language.

To be continued tomorrow, follow this link for part 2.

Originally posted here.